12. Language Development: A Tale of Two Extremes
Language development in individuals with Asperger’s Syndrome is a fascinating subject, characterized by seemingly contradictory traits. On one hand, there is often early speech development, which can amaze parents and teachers alike. A toddler with Asperger’s may possess a vocabulary that outshines those of their peers, surprising adults with complex sentences and nuanced words.
This early language development can sometimes lead to misconceptions. It might be assumed that a child who speaks like a “little adult” is also emotionally or socially mature, but this isn’t always the case. The complex vocabulary often masks challenges in other areas, such as understanding sarcasm, humor, or the subtleties of social interaction.
Paradoxically, although vocabulary can be advanced, the practical use of language may be limited. Conversations can become one-sided, focused narrowly on topics of interest to the individual with Asperger’s. Understanding this is not about labeling them as self-absorbed or insensitive to others, but recognizing that they engage with the world in a different way.(12)
