Fact 13. Social Withdrawal: Dementia’s Lonely Path
A common behavioral issue that accompanies dementia is social withdrawal. This change manifests as an increased desire for solitude, a reduction in communication, or an outright avoidance of social situations. It’s as if a once vibrant, social butterfly gradually becomes a solitary creature, cocooned within their own world.
Several factors contribute to social withdrawal in dementia. Cognitive decline makes interactions more challenging, leading to confusion and frustration. Sensory changes can make environments seem overwhelming, and a decreased ability to communicate can create feelings of isolation.
Witnessing a loved one retreat from their social life can be painful. Unfortunately, the instinctive response to try and coax them back into social settings can often backfire, leading to increased stress and resistance. Instead, modifying social activities to match their current abilities and comfort level can be more beneficial.
For example, one might consider smaller, more intimate gatherings instead of large, bustling events. Incorporating familiar elements such as old music or photo albums can spark connections and make interactions more enjoyable. Most importantly, maintaining a calm, patient demeanor helps create a safe and relaxed social atmosphere. (13)