5. The Special Interests: A Symphony of One in Female Asperger’s
For women with Asperger’s, a ‘special interest‘ isn’t just a hobby—it’s an emotional lifeline. These absorbing interests can range from the arts and sciences to more eclectic topics. The dedication and focus they bring to these pursuits are remarkable, offering a sanctuary from the complexity of the world around them.
The depth of these interests often goes beyond what most people consider reasonable. Reading every book on a subject, mastering a particular video game, or delving into the intricacies of an obscure historical event—these aren’t just pastimes; they’re passions that consume significant mental energy.
This intensity can be an advantage in professional or academic settings, where deep expertise is valued. However, the downside is that these special interests can become so all-encompassing that they interfere with daily life and social interactions. But to ask a woman with Asperger’s to give up her special interest is akin to asking her to sever a part of herself.
These interests often become the woman’s primary way of relaxing and de-stressing. They offer an escape hatch from a world that often feels confusing or overwhelming. Thus, special interests serve a dual role as both an outlet for their creativity and a coping mechanism for their social struggles. (5)
