10. Emotional Lability – The Roller Coaster Ride
Emotional lability is like being on an ever-spinning roller coaster of emotions, with unexpected highs and lows that can change in the blink of an eye. One moment you might be elated, feeling like you’re on top of the world, and the next, you could find yourself plunging into despair.
The trigger for these rapid mood swings can often be something minor—a comment, a glance, or even a thought. Unlike typical mood changes that have some proportionality to the triggering event, the emotional shifts in BPD can be unpredictable and often out of proportion to the situation at hand.
The impact of these emotional swings goes beyond the individual. It affects relationships, work performance, and general well-being. Imagine trying to build a stable life on such shaky emotional ground; it’s a monumental task that often feels insurmountable.(10)