Fact 3: Emotional Depth – Debunking Myths
A prevailing belief is that children with AS lack emotion or are detached from the world around them. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Just like every child, they too experience a whole spectrum of emotions. However, the manifestation of these emotions might differ. To the outside observer, they may seem unresponsive or indifferent, but internally, a whirlwind of emotions could be taking place.
Children with AS often feel emotions on a magnified scale. A small disappointment might seem like the end of the world, while a moment of happiness can feel euphoric. This intensity is not a mere overreaction. Their neurological makeup processes feelings differently. To them, every emotion, whether joy, sadness, anger, or excitement, is deeply felt and profoundly real.
While they feel deeply, children with AS often grapple with expressing their emotions. They might have all these feelings bubbling within them but lack the tools to let them out. Imagine the frustration of feeling something so deeply but not being able to communicate it effectively. For these children, that’s an everyday reality. This struggle can sometimes lead to meltdowns or outbursts, which are misinterpreted as behavioral issues rather than communication challenges.
Often, their reactions might seem out of place. They might giggle during a serious moment or appear aloof during emotional ones. These reactions, rather than indicating a lack of empathy, underscore their unique way of processing situations. It’s essential to remember that their understanding and interpretation of situations can differ from the norm. Hence, their reactions, though seemingly out of sync, are genuine and rooted in their perception. (3)
